2 months old today!

We're celebrating Emily's 2 month birthday at the beach today!  The Wilder's annual beach vacation is this week so we're hanging out in Emerald Isle, NC.

Our week began with Father's Day. Blaine is the best dad a little girl could ask for (my daddy ranks up there too!). He is very good with Emily and loves her so much. You can tell she really loves him too.  We had some special time as a family in bed before we had to pack up and leave for the beach. I love him so very much and my heart melts when I see him love on our little girl.

We got to have lunch with Blaine's family before leaving town for Father's Day too. Here's Emily and her Grandpa Riney!

She was a trooper on the drive to the beach but got a little overwhelmed with everyone when we got here. But we settled down and started having some fun.  My sister, Allyson, helped me give Emily a bath and get her ready for bed. This was her idea of styling her hair (which is a little curly when it's wet)! Allyson has giggled all week at Emily and it's so funny!  I mean how do you not laugh at this!?!?

We dressed her up in her new swimsuit for a little fun too...how cute is she with her sunglasses on top of her head!?!?! So stylish!

Of course we had to add the hat (and then she got upset so we gave her the paci) but we had to get a picture of the whole get up...so funny, our little doll!

My whole family has been really helpful giving us a break taking care of sweet Emily. I really appreciate the help and love them so much!

She's getting to be such a big girl. First we took out the sling in her tiny bathtub and this week we let Emily ride forward facing in her stroller. Her car seat carrier clicks into an attachment bar on the BOB stroller and she would ride backwards up until now. Very safe but very hot this time of year; everytime I take her out she feels so sweaty and hot and I feel bad. I think this way is much better and she seems to enjoy it too. 

We'll keep on having fun, life is good. :) XOXO

Such a trooper!

We had a fun/busy weekend and Emily was such a trooper!  She hung in there with us everywhere we went and was such a good baby. 

Blaine had to go out of town this past weekend so Emily and I went to my parents house in Henderson.  We first went to visit my office in Durham so that everyone could meet Miss Emily. She did great, as always, in the car and while we were there.  Then we headed on to Henderson from there.  She started going every 3 hours between feedings all of a sudden and that was a blessing since it allowed us some freedom to do some things.  And we took advantage of the time for sure!

My sister is engaged to be married and wanted us to check out some venue's around Henderson for her so we packed Emily up and went scouting.  First was Purpleberry Plantation in Louisburg on Thursday afternoon where we toured the grounds and house. It was all very pretty. 

On Friday I took Emily to visit my MaMa and PaPa which was just so neat.  MaMa was the lady that kept my sister and I when we were little at her in home daycare. She is so special to me and I have so many wonderful memories of my time with her.  She and PaPa have had some health scares recently and I haven't been home long enough to go visit them so I took advantage of the free day. It was so special to be there with them. MaMa actually surprised me by coming to my baby shower and it was so touching.  She thinks Emily looks like my dad!

Later that afternoon we visited another venue for the wedding, Magnolia Manor in Warrenton.  Allyson and Matt ultimately decided to have the wedding here and i know it will be beautiful and everything they want it to be. 

We went out to dinner on Friday night (a first for Emily, she's only been to lunch and breakfast).  She was such a good girl!

 On Saturday we went to two graduation parties for some friends graduating from high school and had a good time visiting with friends and family.  We also finally got to get Freeze Maid ice cream this weekend! Summer has begun officially now!

My mom worked with Emily on doing tummy time. We're working on 15 minutes a day but only get about 3-5 minutes at a time before she screams, but she's doing better.

Emily was so exhausted from her weekend that she slept from 10pm-6:30am on Sunday night! That's 8 1/2 hours folks-the longest she's slept EVER! Of course I'm not expecting that every night but she's still a good sleeper (for which I'm very grateful).

I have to also add that last Wednesday was the first time we left Emily with someone during the evening. Blaine's mom was so sweet to come over and watch her while I went out with some girlfriends for a much needed girls night out and Blaine went to a work dinner.  It was a little nerve racking but we survived and she apparently did great. It was nice to have a few adult hours out too. Maybe we'll go on a date next! :) Thanks Nancy!!

Next thing for us to work on will be nap time...she doesn't like to sleep in her crib during naps.  We also need to perfect our schedule, but we'll get there eventually-sigh.

XOXO

Happy Baby

Well, we think we have the cutest baby ever and she is growing so much! She had to go to the Dr. last Thursday (again) for a follow up to the upper GI test and Zantac prescription.  She weighed 10lbs 4oz!  

look at her little buddha (big) belly!

It was a bit of a waste of time if you ask me but its fun to get her weighed.  She's doing so much better since going on the medicine. She still spits up but isn't in pain anymore so we're happy. She's pretty fussy still when she has gas and i'm trying to figure out what it is that i'm eating that upsets her tummy.  Lately she's been a little more uncomfortable than normal.

I love that she's getting a little personality too. She's the most "talkative" in the mornings and its so fun to snuggle with her and "talk" back.  She's getting pretty good at smiling too and hopefully we're on the verge of laughing.  We certainly think we're funny and try our hardest to get a giggle out of her!  

I keep thinking about what my dad said: "You'll spend the first 12 months teaching her to walk and talk then the next 12 years telling her to sit down and shut up!" Probably more true than i know right now.

I hope she doesn't mind all these cute clothes too! I have so much fun picking out something for her to wear each day. I'm actually jealous of her fashionable closet.

Is this my brother? haha! Blaine bought me this monkey when i had my appendectomy a couple of years ago as my "be better present" and i used to sleep with it until Emily came along. The first few nights at home i tried sleeping with it but woke up in a sheer panic everytime b/c i thought it was her and that i was smothering her under the covers. I guess i thought i had been nursing her in the middle of the night and fell asleep with her. It seriously scared me to death. I still wake up sometimes thinking she's in the bed with us and i'm not sure why b/c we don't let her sleep with us. If anything i bring her into our room if she's gotten up before 7am and put her on her boppy lounger in the bed so that we can't roll over on her if we go back to sleep.  Guess i'm not getting as much sleep as i think i am since i have these panic attacks! I thought it would be funny to see them side by side...we'll keep checking to see how big she gets compared to him.

We love our baby girl so much!

Memorial Day weekend!



Well as if our week wasn't exciting enough last week we had an equally crazy weekend. 

Emily took her first trip to Henderson...  

We first stopped off for a visit to my mom's office, I'm sure we'll be back though on another visit.  We also visited my aunt Ruby and uncle Thomas, had a cook-out at Sam & Tashia's with all the Wilder's, went to church, had some visitors come by (to see my dad and Emily), and went to Target!  Phew!



My Aunt Ruby with Emily



Cousin Michele and GiGi playing with Emily

 
Side Note: My dad is doing excellent!  We watched him like a hawk all weekend and he was very good at not doing too much (not lifting anything over 4lbs).  And Emily's test was fine but the doctor did give her a prescription of Zantac for her acid reflux and she is a much happier baby.  No big spit ups so far!  Praise God! 

Blaine and Poppa playing with Emily


But the most exciting thing that happened this weekend was my sister getting ENGAGED!!  Allyson and Matt got engaged on Friday while visiting the beaches of the Florida Gulf.  We're really excited for them and can't wait to see them this coming weekend for a little celebration.  Maybe Emily will get to be a flower girl! No date has been set yet, they're just enjoying the moment for now.  Poor Matt tried all week to ask my dad for permission-my dad jokes that it gave him a heart attack! He didn't have a heart attack though...and you wonder where we get our flair for drama from! :)

We finished the weekend with a fun cookout at Blaine's parents home with Aunt Kelli and some friends.  Everything was delicious and we had a great time. Emily looked especially cute and patriotic in her red, white and blue crab outfit (wish i had taken a picture). :)

It was a busy fun weekend full of friends and family meeting Emily for the first time.  She was a real trooper the whole weekend.  We're not sure if it was the country air or all the visiting but Emily slept for 7 hours on Friday night and 8 hours on Saturday night while we were in Henderson! Amazing!

We salute our heroes and their families that gave their life for our freedom. Thank you isn't enough for your sacrifice. God Bless America!

What a week!

Wow, what a week we've had!  Everything started out nice and normal on Monday until my mom called.  This may not see out of the ordinary but it was actually my dad's number on caller id but my mom on the other end..."it's nothing major, but..." never the words you want to hear. My dad was in the emergency room in Henderson with chest pains. Of course I'm going to worry, he's my deddy and he doesn't get sick-ever.  They evaluated him, ran an EKG, put him on a heart monitor and eventually transported him to Rex Hospital in Raleigh that evening for more observation.  His doctor saw him Tuesday morning and ordered a catherization for Wednesday morning.  So Emily and I hopped in the car and crossed the county lines for the first time to go visit him. We needed to see for ourselves that he was alright and cheer him up a little.  Sitting in a hospital bed is NO fun, I've been there a time or two so i figured the distraction would be welcome. Just look at that grin on his face!  Then they just chilled out together.

I can't believe i attempted such a big trip by myself for the first time but we made it and she did great.  GiGi was glad to see her too! (how is it that she always looks at the camera when she's holding her?!?!)

We were a little late leaving b/c she had another episode of spitting up that had some mucousy blood in it that morning so we had to wait to hear what her doctor wanted to do since this was the second time it had happened.  We ended up seeing the doctor yesterday and she ordered an upper GI test to be done today. Yes, on a newborn.  They wanted to make sure there wasn't anything going on with her intestines, esophagus or stomach that was causing the spitting up. 

But Poppa was our main concern so we went to see him again.  He was taken to the cath lab just as we were getting there so we missed him but got to see him when he got back.  Everything went fine and he only had to have 1 stint put into an artery that was 80% blocked.  They had to go in through his leg instead of through his wrist but that's ok b/c now he's so much better.  We're so thankful for all the prayers that were answered that it wasn't something bigger and he needed bypass surgery.  Go God!  He's home now but of course we're going to make sure he does what the doctor says and gets better quick.  Emily is a great nurse!

So we went to get her GI test done this morning and she did much better than her nervous mom. This was right after she ate at 7am, so precious. She couldn't have anything for 3 hours before the test at 10am. She usually eats sooner than that and i knew that if she didn't sleep through those 3 hours it was not going to be pretty. So i loaded her in the car and we went for a drive to put her to sleep. It worked b/c we had to wake her up to have it done.

She had to drink barium (which looked disgusting) while they were taking the images and we were able to be with her the whole time.  The radiologist didn't see anything abnormal so that was good news too!  Go God!  Not sure what the next step will be (acid blocker or just let her grow out of it) but we'll be ok.

In other big news, she's been sleeping in her crib at night!  Blaine put her down Monday night after we wrapped her/swaddled her in the halo sleep sack (b/c we can't put a blanket on her this is sort of like a sleeping bag with arm holes).  She didn't sleep quite as well as she did in the little bassinet that she was sleeping in but that's ok.

She did a little better the next night, and was back to her usual 5-5.5 hrs of sleeping last night (thankfully).  Now when we go to Henderson this weekend and she sleeps in the bassinet she'll be all messed up but we'll get back on track :)  We've gotten in a good routine of giving her a bath, then a bottle then rocking her to sleep.  Seems to be working. 

So we've had an exciting week.  The most important thing to remember is that God is in charge. We are so blessed to have family, friends and churches that prayed for my dad during this week and He answered them.  Prayer works friends. God is so good.  He will continue to bless those that are faithful to Him and there aren't enough thank yous that can show my grattitude for what He's done in my life.  I have a beautiful and healthy daughter, a handsome and loving husband, and family that means everything to me b/c of God's generous grace.  I will never take that for granted, I thank Him everyday!  Go God!!!

One month old today!

It's hard to believe that our baby girl is already 1 month old!  These past 4 weeks have really flown by. Everyday we get to watch Emily grow and develop. She's making "aaahhh" noises now (which is a relief from the crying), she's more alert and we're on the verge of getting smiles and laughs from her.  She especially likes when we kiss her tummy or neck (and when my hair gets in her face)!  She can hold her head up better and even likes to sit on Blaine's lap...of course always focused on her friend fanny (the ceiling fan).

She still pretty much hates tummy time though.  She will lay on her playmat fine for a good while and when I turn her over she does really good for about 1 minute then starts to fuss. I even tried propping her on the boppy but she was already mad at me and didn't like that either.  She'll really pull her head up when she's laying on your chest.

She's has basically grown out of her newborn clothes. We tried to put a sleeper on her just last night and it was a little snug for our piglet!  So we've moved to the 3 month section of her closet.  Some of the things are still a little big but this adorable ballerina sleeper was just too cute.

Notice the little characters on the changing pad under her bottom? Well those were one of the best purchases that I didn't even know we needed. They're these waterproof pads that we put on top of the changing pad (although it's waterproof too underneath the cover) and it's a good thing b/c for some reason she likes to pee AFTER we've taken off her diaper.  Usually it only gets on this little pad and not the whole cover so I don't have to wash it everyday but it does usually get on her clothes which we then have to change! 

She is still a little fussy in the evenings...I'm convinced it's acid reflux b/c of the way she's acting and I feel so bad for her.  We're trying gripe water and it's helping but not curing it.  We keep burp cloths handy everywhere in the house. 

She's also discovered the paci. They're so big in her mouth though that she looks like Maggie from the Simpson's!  She isn't really able to keep a hold of it so we have to help her. Lately she's been pretty content with it though so that's good. Here's Blaine helping her keep it in (what a sweet picture).

Today we made it to Sunday School and worship service at church. I didn't get a picture of her cute outfit before Blaine changed it but this one I thought was equally as cute. Plus we had to change into our play clothes b/c we walked over to Kelli's (Blaine's sister's) house so that Emily could meet her dog, Baxter for the first time!

We had a really fun and busy weekend!  Here are her 1 month pictures...notice how snug her 0-3 month onsies are, guess we'll store those away now too!  Stay tuned for more as we watch our sweet baby girl grow big and strong!

Mother's Day Weekend

We had such a great Mother's Day Weekend!  My sister and her boyfriend came to visit on Friday night from Washington, DC.  We actually got up on Saturday morning and took Emily with us to eat at Blaine's favorite breakfast joint, The Villager. She slept the whole time and did great!

see she knows to use her fork and spoon :)

On Saturday afternoon we were able to get out of the house again and take a stroll downtown Southern Pines and explore the cute shops they have to offer.  My dad and Blaine walked Emily up and down the street while us girls shopped. 

It was really nice to spend time with everyone and to have help holding Emily since that's what she likes best.    


One of the most special parts of the weekend was taking Emily to church for her baby dedication service.  I was very nervous to take her and this was the first time we'd been since she was born.  It took careful timing to have her fed and dressed but thanks to my army of help we pulled it off.  We must think she's a little baby doll b/c we couldn't wait to get her dressed for her debut.  Here's what she wore:

This Fellman Brothers dress my mom bought her complete with a bow!

Always the fashionista, these sweet little "toe blooms" completed her outfit!
Oh yeah and of course she had on ruffled bloomers!

We are so thankful that along with my family that Blaine's parents and sister were there as well as Emily's Great Grandaddy and Clareese.  It was very special to have everyone there.  There were 5 other babies also being dedicated that day.  Three of them were our friends Laura and Ches's baby girl twins and Mike and Marsha's baby girl that were all born on the same day a week and 1 day earlier than Emily.  We've had to ask for extra help in the nursery on Sunday's b/c of all the new babies!  Our families and church are so blessed to be able to dedicate these precious babies.  

After church Blaine's parents were very gracious to have everyone over to their home for lunch.  We had a great time visiting with each other.  Thanks so much for having us!  

This is such a good picture of my mom and Emily that I have to share it again. I can't believe how much she looks like a little baby doll!

Such a special Mother's Day weekend! Emily is our gift from God and she is so special to us, we just love her so much.  We're grateful for our mothers every day but now that i'm a mommy it was just a little sweeter.  Happy mother's day to all the baby mama's!